RESPECT IS NOT A WANT IT IS A NEED

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We often see people around us being disrespected and contempted. As if it is a part of daily routine - Wake up in the morning, get ready, go out for work, get disrespected, come back home, cry feel worthless and sleep it off. If a person would go to another person saying I was disrespected, most of the people will react in a way that it is normal, like it is not at all a problem. But that is not the case, once a person is disrespected and is not able to stand up for their-self or anyone else does not stand for them, they become an easy target for other people. 

Everyone talks about how important it is to take care of our body but not many people talk about our mind. If a person gets physically hurt, people apply medicines, got to doctor, but what about mental bruises? Rarely people go to psychologists as if it is a crime to be mentally disturbed, and even if it is, the people who contempt others to a level that they  get disturbed should be considered as criminals not the ones who get disturbed. Being disrespected leaves the person with wounds in the mind that can never be taken care of, that always remain with us.

We never say that food is a want or shelter is a want or clothes are a want but then why is respect a want? Why is respect not considered a need? Respect is most definitely a need for each and everyone. And it is not at all cool to disrespect someone. People disrespect others because either they have been disrespected so they feel it is their right to do what has happened with them, even if it is wrong or they 'illusionate' that bullying or disrespecting others makes them look cool and better than others. 



To all the people who believe in any of these things, This is clearly a deception and you are totally wrong. Do not disrespect any person around you, It can ruin the person's life and the moment you realize what you have done, you will probably hate yourself.

Respect each and everyone around or not around you....

- Muskan Mishra

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